Who pays for what?

Years ago the tradition of who pays for what was very cut and dried. The brides family paid for the invitations, wedding consult, gown, reception center, photos, videographer, and music. The grooms family paid for the marriage license, officiant, brides bouquet, boutonnieres, rehearsal dinner and of coarse the honeymoon. Now things are very different. Sometimes the bride and groom pay for it all, and maybe the parents help if possible. There are no set rules anymore of who pays for what , it is what is best for everyone, anything goes. So what about you, how is your family paying for your wedding?